“I have served. I will be of service.” (John Wick)
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What type of man do ALL women love?
Before I answer that, let me ask you this…
As you’ve aged and have increased in wisdom and intelligence, does it seem like nowadays the only people you meet are…idiots? Do you feel as if you’re interacting with more and more people you can’t fuckin’ stand? Like they’re probably a good person, but for whatever reason, they rub you the wrong way. Do you find yourself often saying, “I don’t like people”?
Let me help you out here, you don’t hate people, you just hate people who don’t… GET IT.
What does it mean to “GET IT”?
“Getting It” is an UNSPOKEN shared human vibration between two or more people. Human vibration is related to the energy at which we operate on a spiritual, emotional, and energetic level. “Getting It” is the root of great chemistry and the foundation of all long-lasting relationships.
So again, what type of man do ALL women love?
The type of man who… GETS IT.
A man who “gets it” makes everybody and everything better and seems to always have perfect timing with his sentiments, gestures, and actions without having to be asked or told.
Now, you don’t have to be a person that gets it, in fact, the majority of men on this planet do not and get along just fine. Most women, sorry to say, don’t get it, and why should they? Men will chase them and validate them regardless. With that said, a Self-Made Man who “gets it” understands and lives by the following…
#1. Selflessness
A man who gets it is all about the B.A.G…bold, ambitious, and GENEROUS. Tip well, loan more than you borrow, pick up the check at dinner, buy shots for people you don’t know and will never see again, and always make sure everyone has a good time.
Do this not to impress…
#2. Observe & Listen
It’s no coincidence that the words silent and listen have the same exact letters. If you shut the fuck up, you’ll be surprised how much you can learn about someone. A man who gets it pays attention to EVERYTHING. Did she just mention how her mother who passed away loved astrology…surprise her on a future date with a trip to the planetarium. Did your boy say he’s always wanted to learn how to play poker…randomly suggest a trip to the casino for a guy’s get-away and use that opportunity to teach your boy a new skill. People operate in patterns; all you have to do is observe and serve.
Do this not for glory…
#3. Be
BE passionate about other people’s passions. BE curious about their curiosities. Be someone who really gives a shit. BE engaging, BE present, and BE in that exact moment as if the last hour never existed and the next minute will never come.
Do this not for her or for him….
Do this, because you GET IT.
WALT FACTUAL
