Yoooo…I pray all is well with you, I pray you are being fruitful, I pray you are being great outchea.
Let’s get to work!
As you can see, the title of this week’s article is H.O.L.D…which stands for… “Ho’s Only Leave the Desperate.” Holding simply means to wait, to be patient, to be emotionally bulletproof, to not press or be pressed by women, to focus on other things besides women and while you are holding, they will either come back to you or a new woman will come around.
Allow me to cook.
First and foremost, PURPOSE must come first. Hobbies, health, and wealth, I’ll leave that up to you on how to prioritize what’s most important after purpose. I don’t have time to cover PEMDAS right now, but you should go to our podcast and listen to that episode.
Notice how I didn’t mention women in that lineup of importance. That’s cuz women should come wayyy after everything else. Having purpose, hobbies, and being on a health and wealth mission is not just so you can have some cool shit to say. These things are the ultimate defense shield against women. Have you ever noticed that when one of your girls start trippin’…they all start trippin’? You could lose all of your females in one fucking day! Females are finnicky and volatile and you never know when they are going to do what they do. When women are on their seasonal bullshit, and you don’t have purpose, hobbies, and your health and wealth mission are not in place, you are 100% defenseless against a woman’s fuckery. Thus, the importance of purpose, it gives you the HOLD superpower.
Here are some examples of a Self-Made Man holding.
She looks good, but you haven’t seen what her other friends look like and you know they will be entering your orbit sometime in the future…HOLD.
She wants a relationship, you do not. She threatens to start dating. You let her go and…HOLD.
You were supposed to meet up tonight, at the last minute she cancelled. You don’t trip, you block her and…HOLD.
She hasn’t responded to your text and/or she ignored your phone call…HOLD.
Anytime women in your life start bullshitting, reward their bad behavior with the HOLD. Don’t trip. Don’t start complaining. Don’t start negotiating, because the more you push, the more they will pull, instead…HOLD. And while you HOLD…get to fucking WORK.
This leads me to the acronym for H.O.L.D (HO’s Only Leave the Desperate). Men on their purpose never get left by women. They might leave for a period of time, but they always come back… ALWAYS. Even if they get married and have children, they will still eventually come back to you. Women only leave desperate men. Men with a scarcity mindset get left all day, every day. Men are desperate these days because they put women first and ain’t got shit going on… too bad so sad. Not you, not me, we H.O.L.D outchea.
Now, I’m not saying to HOLD with the hopes of a woman coming back to you, no… fuck that. I’m saying that when you are on your purpose and you HOLD, if a woman leaves you, it won’t matter because something new or old is always on the way.
Just this morning a female told me she’s moving on…okay, you know what I’ma do?
You guessed it.
Be Great Outchea
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