I just came back from my first guy’s trip and I can’t lie, I had an absolute blast. I would like to give you my one and only tip that will make your future guy’s trip a guaranteed success, ready?
Don’t…worry…about…women.
Let’s get 2 work.
A sapiosexual is a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing. In your lifetime, you may run into two or three female sapiosexuals…tops. The vast majority of the women you will meet won’t be attracted to your intellect, rather, they will be attracted to how you make them FEEL. If you’re going out to bars trying to show women how smart you are by debating them or talking about their nature and subconscious mind…STOP IT!! When women are out on the town, the last thing they want to hear is you ramble on and on about the “5 top ways to make a woman submit.” The 1980’s song by Cyndi Lauper said it best, “Girls Just Want to Have Fun.” If you’re a man with brains, good, but let women find that out AFTER they’ve discovered you’re a guy who is 24-karat… FUN!
Why do women like dangerous, bold, spontaneous men? Because they make them FEEL something, they make them FEEL… ALIVE. From now on, your job is not to try and impress women with your words and/or material things. Instead, your job is to make them FEEL you with your ACTIONS.
Here’s how…
#1. Dance. Yup, go to a club where you can dance (80’s nightclubs are tons of fun), be brave, take the woman that you want out on the dance floor, and let her FEEL your heat and electricity. Here’s a bonus, other women will notice you having fun and she will notice other women noticing you which will activate her competition anxiety and increase her sexual desire for you.
#2. Land, Air, Sea. Take her out on some rented jet skis, go parasailing, rent some scooters or mopeds downtown, take a nearby trip to a spot that offers zip lining or look into private airplane/ helicopter lessons and invite her to join you. Any one of these will get her heart racing and make her FEEL more connected to you.
#3. Masculine Energy. Teach her how to shoot a gun, many gun ranges have date night specials and/or private classes. If this is too much, try an archery range where you can both shoot a bow and arrow at the same time. If you go to a gym, have a home gym, or do any kind of boxing/ martial arts, invite her to workout with you so you can show her a few things and she can FEEL your energy. Not only do these activities make her FEEL alive, but they have the added bonus of making her FEEL safe with you.
#4. Strength and Action. Women love to see us doing hard things and they love to see us in motion even more. Strength and action speak poetry to their femininity which is soft and nurturing. Women hate weak and lazy men because their nature knows that those types of men will not be able to protect and provide for them in the long run. Simply just BECOMING and BEING a man of strength and action will have tons of women FEELING you.
I can hear some of you now, “But Walt, I don’t know how to dance, or how to ride jet skis, or how to fight, or shoot guns.” I hear you loud and clear and guess what, you’re in luck because they have this crazy thing called…Google, you can start there. And if that doesn’t work, they have this other strange thing named YouTube.
There is absolutely no excuse as to why you cannot become a “Fun” guy. Get out of your head and stop running your mouth. Let her tell you, let her see you, and last but not least…let her FEEL you.
WALT FACTUAL
