It is always better for a man to like the woman who wants him instead of liking the woman whom he wants. Why is this? Because when a man likes a woman that he wants, he is willing to put up with all kinds of bullshit. He will give her the benefit of the doubt. He will let disrespect go unchecked. He will allow himself to be fooled. And when the time comes to cut her off completely, he won’t, because he WANTS her. Subsequently, the more energy he puts into her, the less energy he will have for his mission and purpose.
For the majority of my life, I was this guy. For the women I wanted, I ignored red flag after red flag. I put up with lies and mistreatment. I ignored the women that wanted me and saw the women I wanted as some sort of foolish conquest. Each and every woman I have ever wanted made my life 24 karat…hell.
Life for me these days are fantastic simply because I now choose to like the women who want me. By like I mean I will intentionally find, develop, and maintain a connection with them as long as they don’t disturb my peace. I don’t care if they come or go because I don’t WANT them. They don’t get in the way of my purpose because I don’t WANT them. I correct, instruct, direct, and teach them, if they don’t adhere to what I tell them, I cut them off. This is super easy to do… why? Because I don’t WANT them. Now, if you’re a woman reading this, I know exactly what you’re thinking. “That’s horrible.” “It shouldn’t be like that.” “I want to be wanted the same way I want you.” I hear you and I would like to ask you… how has having a man that WANTS you worked out for you? Is your pussy wetter because of it? Do you respect and honor him more? Is this man providing you with the life you have always dreamed of? Has he made you a better woman and added value to your life? Or is this something you THINK that you want because you’ve never had it? Oh…I thought so.
Men are not designed to love women the same way women love men. American programming and so called “progression” has men and women living out of order. Men are supposed to work. The word work when used as a verb means to SUCCEED IN BECOMING. Men are designed to BECOME. We must become a MAN. We must become a MAN of VALUE. We must BECOME providers, producers, and protectors. Women are designed to BE. Women are supposed to BE nurturing and caring. Women are supposed to BE in love. Women are supposed to BE wanting the man more than he wants her. When Adam was in the Garden of Eden, he was working…then God provided him with a woman. The MAIN problem with men liking the women they want is that they eventually end up loving the woman more than the woman loves them. She soon becomes his purpose and reason for living. See an emotional man, see a man with a woman he wants that stresses him out. See a broke man, see a man with a woman he wants that he is trying to make happy. See an unhealthy man, see a man with a woman he wants that is unhealthy as well. Behind every man losing in life, lies a woman that he wants who motivates his downfall.
When a woman loves a man (not a boy, not a male, a MAN) that she wants, what is affected negatively?
Absolutely nothing.
A woman wanting and loving a man doesn’t stop him from providing, protecting, and producing for her. Nor does it stop her from doing what she has to do.
Now, what happens when a man loves a woman that he wants? I’ll tell you what happens…destruction. Mankind altogether suffers because of this. I have a cousin who used to draw very well. He was invited to attend an art school when we were in 6th grade. He fell in love in 8th grade and… that was the end of his art career. Do you think you would have an iPhone if Steve Jobs was out here wanting and loving ho’s? Do you think your social media would have been developed if Jack Dorsey and Mark Zuckerberg were wanting women the way women want them? You know that bridge that they’ve been working on for years, yeah, you know why they ain’t finished it yet? Cuz somebody in control is somewhere laid up under a woman they want…that’s why! When a man loves a woman that he wants, he feeds that woman and starves the world.
I’ve said all that to say this.
Stop liking the women you want and start liking the women who wants you. We got shit to do.
WALT FACTUAL
