Thursday night, at work, a few of my coworkers were having a discussion. I normally don’t get involved in other people’s conversations because many of my views can get me canceled, so I just stay in Clark Kent mode. This particular conversation was about flirting, so it piqued my interest. They were going back and forth about who was flirting with who at the workplace. It was one girl and three dudes. For some reason, the girl felt it would be funny to tell two of the young men there that they like to flirt with each other. I thought to myself…" What the fuck?” I said to her… “Why would you tell two men that they flirt with each other. That shit is disrespectful.” We went back and forth, she eventually shut down, and drove off. I didn’t even say much. In so many words, I told her the joke wasn’t cool. Mind you, this wasn’t even my fight and she often brings me candy to snack on. The funny thing is, as I was speaking to her, the two guys she disrespected and whom I instinctively defended, just sat there… mute… like 2 idiots. I couldn’t help but to think…with all the knowledge I have, why the fuck did I say anything?
I know exactly why I said something. Because, unconsciously, women love to kick men in their ass while men go day in and day out kissing theirs. A man has 47 levels of logic (not literally) in his arsenal and women have two levels of emotion. When men and women speak with each other on any level, it is a man’s logic versus a woman’s emotion. I don’t care how many levels of logic you have, once a woman reaches level 2 of emotion…you’re done. A woman’s level 1 of emotion is mental and psychological, it is what she is feeling inside. Her level 2 of emotion is the physical manifestation of that emotion such as crying, yelling, fighting, evil actions, throwing shit, etc. Here’s an example.
Woman- “Do you like my hairstyle? You can tell me the truth.”
Man (thinking in microseconds, 47 levels of logic)- she did say I can tell her the truth. but what if she becomes self concious about her hair after. am I going to have to spend more money on another hairstyle? is she gonna act funny with me as the week goes on? but, if I tell her no now, I won’t have to look at that ugly ass shit again though? Fuck it, let’s see… “NO.”
Woman (level 1 of emotion, confusion & shock)- “What you don’t like about it?
Man (thinking in nanoseconds now)- fuck, I’m already here now, I might as well tell her what I don’t like so she’s not in her head about it. I’m gonna have to pay for another hairstyle or take her out to eat later… fuck! “It makes your forehead kinda sorta look a little umm, big.”
Woman (level 2 emotion, cold shoulder & outrage)- Oh, my, God. I can’t believe yo fat ass just fixed your mouth to tell me that! What the fuck do you know anyway! I’m going out, don’t wait up!…(woman ignores man for the rest of the week)
Like I said, they kick our ass and we spend all day, every day, kissing theirs.
So, what is the solution to dealing with this level 2 of emotion? What is the solution to stop getting your ass kicked?
Here it is. If you recall, I wrote an article called “When Women Talk.” I mentioned how when women talk they are just trying to bust a nut. Well, a woman is going to get their nut regardless, but what you must start doing is, at the very beginning of their level 1 bullshit, MAX out on your level of logic and then… drumroll please… shut it down. Shutting the fuck up is your ultimate superpower against level 2 emotions, not more logic. That’s right, from the onset max out your logic and then don’t engage, don’t try to win the argument even though you know you can, don’t, say, shit. Women feed off of YOUR emotions, the more you engage, the more they power up, hit level 2, and ultimately defeat you.
What is your max level of logic you ask? Truth. Simple and plain. You can give women a maximum level of logical truth without being an idiot or getting into some drama. Here’s what the man in my example SHOULD have done.
Woman- “Do you like my hairstyle? You can tell me the truth.”
Man (Truth aka maximum level of logic)-“No, I don’t like it, but instead of asking me after the fact, ask me what I think about you changing your hairstyle beforehand. Don’t try to involve me after you have already made your mind up to do something, unless you want me to lie to you. Regardless of what hairstyle you have I still find you beautiful. And that’s that.”
Woman (Ain’t heard shit he said besides he don’t like it) - “What you don’t like about it?” (I know you hear her asking him this in a much softer tone now, why? Because he maxed out his logic)
Man - “You heard me.” (Statement made, discussion over. From this point on, he shuts down and doesn’t engage whatsoever, she may still get mad, but he won’t be kissing her ass nor getting his ass kicked)
And that gentleman… is how you win the war.
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