I’ve seen multiple posts on social media this week where women were bashing men about sex ranging anywhere from spitting to pegging to sexual insecurity to erectile dysfunction. In these chats, I’ve noticed that men tend to lie in order to keep from being bashed or judged by both men and women. It’s all just one immature group putting on a show for another immature group. There is a strong correlation between sex and life. Find someone selfish in life and also find that same person selfish with sex. Find a person who is ignorant in life, and what a surprise, that same person is also ignorant about sex.
Since us men focus so much on sex, I don’t write about it a lot. At the same time, with all the foolishness I’ve been seeing, I would be doing you a disservice if I didn’t shed some new perspective on the subject. So, with that said…
Let’s get to work.
#1. You Have the Power. You know why men are having erectile dysfunction issues? Because they are either not ready to have sex with the woman or they are not attracted to the woman. (Sidenote: when I refer to attraction, I’m not just talking about looks. A man can also be attracted to a woman for numerous nonphysical things such as her mind and/or her feminine energy). Modern women are very forceful. If they want to have sex, they will pressure you into it. But guess what? You are the MAN and you have the POWER. I’ve said it time and time again fellas, you’ve gotta get your NO’s up. Pressuring you is what women do because…what the fuck else they gonna do, take it? If you’re not ready…you’re not ready. If you’re not attracted to someone cut them loose and don’t waste their time or yours. Saying NO is much more masculine than saying yes to sex that you don’t want. Also, what is the rush? Many times, we find ourselves in bed with a woman in which we have built absolutely no sexual chemistry with. It’s no wonder why you’re not aroused. From the get-go, you must take some time to build some sexual connection. Try texting her randomly throughout the day with some dirty talk, grab her ass while out in public, or have her perform a strip tease for you while on a video chat.
#2. Your Boys. Fuck your boys! Not once have I told my boys about a sexual encounter, and all of sudden, they started worshiping the ground I walk on. Yet still, we have sex with low hanging fruit women, and we have sex when we’re not ready to, just to go back and tell our “boys.” For what? This is some of the stupidest shit we do. It’s because of our need to impress our “boys” that we never experience healthy sex with healthy women. Let me tell you something you may not know…all of your homies are lying. All of them are putting on a front for you and what they really do behind closed doors, they will never tell you. When it comes to sex, better yet, when it comes to women… fuck your boys and fuck what they think.
#3. H.E.R. This acronym stands for Help, Expand, and Reflect. A woman that is H.E.R will REFLECT what you like sexually. In other words, if you’re a freak, you will see the same level of freakiness in her. How can you tell if a woman is H.E.R? Ask yourself, “Will/does this woman HELP me? Will/does this woman help me to EXPAND my pursuits? WILL/DOES THIS WOMAN REFLECT WHO I AM?” If the answer is no, do not waste your time. When a woman is H.E.R, you don’t have to worry about things being used against you because she knows attempting to hurt you will only hurt herself. With H.E.R, you can be free…to an extent, you still have to be a beast outchea. You deserve to have H.E.R in your life, hell, you deserve multiples of H.E.R, but before that can happen, you must become…H.I.M.
Onward and Upward gentlemen.
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