Yo,yo,yo. First off, I would like to say that I 100x’s appreciate you taking the time out of your day to read these articles and for that, I forever consider you, my family. I pray you find something that you love as much as I love working on my podcast and writing these articles for you. And with that said…Let’s get to work!
Let me tell you something that you may or may not know… women don’t know shit about men! They don’t know what we do all day, they don’t know the pressure we deal with to make something of ourselves, and they damn sure don’t know what we want from them. They THINK they know, but they have no fucking clue. Infact, you don’t even know what you want, not specifically. Today, I’m going to give you a list of things you MUST start requiring from the women in your life. These things are non-negotiable and if a particular woman cannot do them for you, absolutely do not deal with her. Remember, we are never pressed over here and we have an ABUNDANT MINDSET over here. Just like you don’t care if the men in your life leave or stay, you need to keep that same energy with women.
Side Note: When it comes to women, at most, you will only get 80% of what you want. The only way to get 100% of what you want is to keep a rotation of different women or if you're in a relationship, get the 20% from a side chick. My advice, if you find yourself in a relationship with a solid woman, never risk 80% for 20%.
The Top 10 Things Men Want from Women
#1. Sex - Women know this is what we want, but this is all that they know. Sex, children, and divorce is a woman’s only power tool. But…if you know what else you want, they cannot control you with this.
#2. Femininity- These are the traditional characteristics of a woman such as gentleness, sweetness, supportiveness, humility, modesty, tenderness, kindness, warmth, helpfulness, devotion, affection, empathy, and understanding.
#3. Effort- Whether it be in the bedroom, or simply making you something to eat, you need a woman to give A plus effort. We love porn mainly because the women in porn give maximum effort. If she knows she has insecurities, a woman who gives effort will read a book on how to become more secure. If I mention I love Jay-Z, a woman who gives effort will surprise me with concert tickets when he comes to town…EFFORT.
#4. Maturity- A mature woman RESPECTS you. A mature woman is never petty. She doesn’t care about always being right. She doesn’t try to insult you. She doesn’t shame you. She doesn’t try to guilt you. She doesn’t throw a fit when she doesn’t get her way. A mature woman acts like an adult.
#5. Accountability- It is impossible to build with a woman who doesn’t know how to take responsibility. Everything will always be your fault and you will spend every waking day kissing her ass. A woman with no accountability is a damaged woman and will only attempt to transfer all of her hurt and pain onto you. When she speaks about her last relationship, listen to see if she takes any accountability or if she puts all the blame on her ex…no one is COMPLETLEY to blame for a breakup.
#6. Cooperation- This is the same as asking for submission, but if you bring up the word submission, they probably won’t hear shit you have to say afterwards. Asking for cooperation is much more effective. Cooperation simply means working together to the same end. If you say, “Hey this month, we will cut back on spending” you need your women to trust your judgement and simply say… “Ok” … cooperation.
#7. Good Representation- A woman who knows how to represent you well is a woman who values loyalty. When you are not around you need your woman to represent you in the highest light. Whether she is out in the public, at home, or just around friends and family, she must represent you well. When she is on social media, she must represent you well. When men try to make a move with her, or if the relationship is a bit rocky, she must still represent you well. You must always be able to look at your woman with a sense of pride and that stems from how she represents herself and you.
#8. Verbal Skills- Your woman must be able to put her thoughts into words and tell you exactly what is going on with her. MANY women (not all) want a mind reader because they are lazy and communication takes EFFORT. Women will leave you in their mind before they leave you physically and won’t tell you what you have done wrong until they are out the door. Your woman must be able to communicate or at the very least put in the work to be better at it.
#9. Balance- A balanced woman can enjoy adventure yet can also stay at home with you and chill. A balanced woman wants your time but will also want you to take time for yourself. A balanced woman knows when to follow your lead and also knows when to speak to you with reason. A balanced woman knows how to make herself happy. She knows how to enjoy her own company. She has things of her own going on. A woman that is balanced in return balances you. You don’t want a balanced woman; you NEED a balanced woman.
#10. Personal- I’ll leave this one up to you. It could be beauty, fitness, youth, no children, etc. Whatever you felt I left out, make it plain and make it count on this one.
Now remember, you can’t have it all so pick from this list wisely. Adopt this list and you will receive the PEACE you crave, because at the end of the day, PEACE is what we want most of all.
WALT FACTUAL
