If you don’t know what to do right now, ask your future self. He/she has the answer.
Let’s get 2 work.
Picture this scenerio.
You, your girlfriend, and I, are all chilling… somewhere (doesn’t matter where). We’re having a conversation about our lives and all the things we currently have going on. You, inform me about your job, your kids, and a load of other boring ass shit. Your girl, because you have led her into a boring existence, is also telling me about a bunch of mundane crap. When your girl finishes sharing, she then asks me, “So, what have you been up to?” I proceed to tell her that I just took some airplane flying lessons, bought a new motorcycle, danced till I sweat at my brother’s party, practice my bow and arrow twice a week, privately DJ and bartend for friends, and just wrapped up the 50th episode on my men’s podcast. Your girl says to me, “Cool, it sounds like you’re having a lot of fun.” Unbeknownst to you, your girl is thinking, “If I wasn’t with this lame ass dude, I’d fuck the shit outta Walt.”
Your girl will never let you know this, nor will she act on this thought. Nevertheless, if you knew this idea was floating around in her mind, how would you feel? Would this thought had been any better if I replaced myself in this scenario with a stranger? I don’t think so. Just the simple fact that your girl wants to fuck someone other than you is enough to make you jealous, insecure, and angry.
Here’s how to keep your woman from wanting to fuck somebody else.
Don’t, Be, Boring.
Richard Cooper from the YouTube series “Unplugged Alpha” states, “You can do anything to a woman, except bore her.”
Just like you level up your characters in your video games, so must you level up your character in real life. A leveled-up man can never be a boring man.
Women want a man with resources, so get on your purpose. Women need to be protected, so join a dojo. Women love to dance, learn to salsa. Women crave excitement, get comfortable with fucking in public places. Women seek turmoil, so start telling they ass NO.
[Side Note: Simply telling a woman NO every so often will suffice for the unquenchable amount of drama and anxiety they need to function harmoniously.]
Women love bad boys because bad boys are never boring. You, my dear reader, don’t have to be a bad boy, you just need to be fun. How do you become fun? First, just write down five or ten things that seem fun to you right now and execute. Your list will grow over time. The good news is that you don’t need anyone to accompany you on this quest for adventure. Infact, I highly recommend that you embark on this journey of fun… ALONE. When I decided to get a motorcycle, I took the riding classes ALONE. When I went to fly a plane, I went ALONE. Everything that excites me, I do…ALONE. Doing things solo teaches you how to be self-motivated and self-reliant. When you finally do welcome someone into your life, you won’t need them to complete you because you already complete yourself. Don’t follow what other people are doing, follow YOUR enthusiasm, and follow YOUR excitement. One thing will lead to another thing and then another thing. Once you get going, you won’t be able to sleep, not because of stress, but because you can’t wait to seize the day.
If a woman’s drug is fun,
then her drug dealer… you must become.
WALT FACTUAL
