Yoooo, what’s good family? Are you following your natural enthusiasm, are you following what internally excites you? I pray you are because this is how you will find your purpose in life. Though the first thing you try may not be your thing, it will definitely lead to the thing that will lead to the thing that will lead to the thing. Not many people will find their purpose in life due to fear, complacency, and/or doubt, but over here, we put ourselves first and live on purpose. If you are getting value from these blogs and our podcast, if you are up or down in life, if you just want to vent and get some things off your chest, please tell us about it at 2deep4daintro@gmail.com, you’re family now. And with that said…let’s get to work!
Allow me to get personal once again. But before I do, I would like to speak on why I’m qualified to talk about being a Self-Made-Man. I’m qualified just on the simple fact that I’m out here on this Self-Made journey right along with you guys putting each principle to the test daily seeing what works and what doesn’t. When you apply these principles I’ve given you in these articles, when you stay on your purpose and tune out the distractions, things payoff, it’s a simple LAW of the universe, what goes in must come out. I was married for 10 years and I thought giving up on my passions and giving my ex wife everything she wanted would keep her happy, guess what, she still left. As the saying goes…“if you want to make a woman miserable, give her everything she wants.” I’ve been there trying to be the YES man and I’m telling you, in the long run, that route will lead to 24 karat misery. I don’t want you to go through what I went through in my divorce, I want you to find peace, joy, and fulfillment, I want you to be great. Today, I ask you to trust me, continue listening to the podcast, continue reading these articles, and I promise, I will lead you to greatness…annnd with that said, let’s get to work!
Okay, so I have a lady friend who stays in another state, we’ve been off and on, mainly because she likes to self sabotage herself, but that’s another subject. A few days ago, she agreed to drive down to see me in a month from now, I believe the trip is a 16 hour drive. I told her to split the drive and make one of the days a self-care day for herself, she agreed it was a good idea. 2 days ago, she asked me to face time her on the phone, I said NO. Why? Because I have work to do and our conversations be like 2-3 hours, pouring into her at this moment wouldn’t be a smart move. Also, I don’t want to get all worked up and be ready to fuck knowing good and well I won’t see her for a whole fucking month, it’s that simple. But I don’t have to tell her all of this, my NO should suffice enough. Mind you, I told her we could face time when the time got closer. Her response to me was… “So I can drive for 40 days and 40 nights and you can’t even do the bare minimum, you don’t fuck with me like I fuck with you!” She then proceeds to send me a song from some artist titled “I Hate You”…I told her to never mind about coming to see me. Why? For one, this was nothing but a shit test. A shit test is an easy way for a woman to test what kind of man you are. She knows I hate fucking face timing and chose to shit test me for fun. #2, you must avoid “Peace Thieves” at all costs. Peace Thieves will see you on your grind, see you enjoying an uncomplicated life, and will do everything in their power to complicate your life and steal your peace. They don’t even know they’re doing it, it’s just some women’s nature. So, I looked into the future, saw that she would drive all of this way, just to be on some shit test, peace thief shit, and I said to myself…Nahhh, I’m good.
Which leads me to the point of this article…
I’m going to tell you exactly why you don’t tell women NO and why you constantly do things you don’t want to do. It’s not because you’re a nice guy, or because you believe in balance and compromise, nope, it’s because you have a scarcity mindset. You believe if you tell a woman NO that you will run them off and never have another woman touch your dick again, and that sir… is a horrible mindset. If you are on your purpose, building your value, building your mind, body, and soul, women will always be willing to touch your dick. You have every right to tell a woman NO. And if that person leaves you because they CHOOSE not to understand, then let them fucking go! Who’s loss is it anyways? It’s certainly not yours fam. STOP operating in scarcity, it displays a weak and feeble character. START operating with an abundance mindset , when it’s your TIME to shine you will have more than enough, never forget that. Build your walls and the women that really fuck with you will do what they must to either climb them or tear them down, those are the quality women you want in your life.
Next time a woman, or anybody for that matter, asks you to do something that you do not want to do, if it doesn’t make financial sense, if your “Spidey Senses” are going through the roof, if it means putting your purpose on the backburner, stand STRONG. LET what comes…come, and LET what goes…go. Adopt a mindset of abundance and know without a doubt that you are the shit and any woman of quality will be more than happy to have found you. STOP being a YES man, if you ain’t feeling it, put yourself first…just say NO, holla!
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