It’s just us, right?
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I’ve been debating whether I should share this story and if I should share it here or on the pod. I decided to share it here.
Two weekends ago, for the first time since my ex-wife, I met a female that I really liked. Not liked, as in feelings, but liked, as in, I liked her as a person…as in, I wouldn’t mind having her around me more than once every two weeks. We clicked so much that I even asked her out on a date, which is something I rarely do. Fast forward, she ended up being full of shit. Nevertheless, the amount of content I acquired from the endeavor made the whole thing worth it regardless of how it turned out.
My main underlying goal with the podcast and these articles has been to help you avoid looking like, feeling like, and being…a fool.
This was wrong.
Shorty and I was supposed to go out last Saturday night. At the last minute, she canceled. When you’re on the dating scene, women flaking on you is a part of the game and it happens all the time. But for some reason, with this girl, I couldn’t help but to feel…foolish. Why? Because honestly, I felt like getting flaked on ain’t supposed to happen to me. Because I didn’t see it coming. And mainly, because I took a risk and ended up taking an L.
Here’s the lesson I learned…
If you decide to really try and make yourself into something, if you choose to shoot your shot at whatever it is that you want, if you make your mind up to truly go for it outchea, it is highly possible that you may end up looking like and feeling like a fool. But here’s the thing about that, although it sucks and doesn’t feel good when it happens, that feeling is only… temporary. It is much, much better to feel like a fool for a brief moment in time than to BE a COWARD forever. COWARDS never go for that girl, COWARDS never start that business, COWARDS never say or do what needs to be said or done, and that low-down feeling of being a coward never, ever goes away!
I was wrong in trying to help you avoid being a fool.
The few who are brave enough to go after something they want will always risk looking and feeling like a fool… and that’s alright.
There’s a saying that goes, “At first they ignore you, then… they laugh at you, then…they fight you, then…you win.”
If you want love, if you want that fine ass girl, if you want to start a family, go for it, go for whatever it is that you want, just remember to always keep your purpose first. I will continue to equip you with the knowledge that will help you make the smartest decisions possible when it comes to dealing with yourself….and these women, but my new goal is simply to help you do the best you can, while you can.
4 da “fools”
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