I recently saw a video where random men and women were asked if men prefer a natural body or a fake one. EVERY woman believed that men prefer a woman with a Brazilian butt lift aka BBL and EVERY man proclaimed that they prefer a natural booty. So, who was right? The women were right. Why? Because unlike us, women don’t listen to what we say, they pay attention to what we do. They see who gets our attention online and out in public and nine times out of ten it’s not the natural woman. The truth is we really don’t give a damn as long it looks and feels good. The main reasons we say that we want natural over fake is one: we’re SLIGHTLY considering our woman’s health over the long-term and two: we subconsciously believe it’s more likely that the natural woman will do right and stay her ass at home.
Let’s get to work.
I looked up the meaning of masculinity and I find each and every definition to be absolute trash. Merriam-Webster defines it as: the quality, state, or degree of being manly…
Huh??
Cambridge Dictionary describes masculinity as: the characteristics that are traditionally thought to be typical of or suitable for men…
What???
It’s no wonder people are in bad shape today, the people in charge of defining shit can’t even properly define shit. It’s all good because I’m gonna do the world a service and define what masculinity is once and for all.
Masculinity is:
STRENGTH.
Therefore, a masculine man is a STRONG man. He is strong physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
At the ROOT of everything you admire about any man is strength. Your dad and your grandfather are strong. Your favorite superhero is strong. Men from history that you look up to…strong. The celebrity that you champion merely has your respect because you inherently know that to be successful you have to grind and in order to grind day in and day out, you have to be…strong. For those of you raised by single mothers, why do you revere your mother so much? That’s right, cuz she strong.
This brings me to the point of this article.
It is said that we make up to 35,000 decisions per day.
To become a masculine man, what you must do before making ANY of those choices, is ask yourself, “Does this decision make me stronger or weaker?”
For example:
-Your girl is trying to pick a fight with you. Before you give her the satisfaction, ask yourself, “Will matching her emotional energy make me stronger… or weaker?”
-You decided to go back to school. You’re dying to tell your homie. Before you do, ask yourself, “Is running my fucking mouth a strong move… or a weak one?”
Watch porn or read one of my articles, get some fast food or go home and drink a protein shake, sleep in or go to the gym, scroll on your phone or work on your mission, chase women or chase greatness. Out of the 35,000 choices you will make today you must determine which ones ADD to your masculinity and which ones subtract from it.
The goal here, should you CHOOSE to accept it, is to finish each day a little stronger than the day before. Day by day and week by week, the more you choose strength over weakness the more masculine you will become. I don’t have to know you to know that you value strength because deep down we all do. The only thing that separates you from the man that you idolize is his constant choice to put strength over weakness.
When there are no results, what makes a man keep working? When he has failed over and over again, what makes a man keep trying? When it is dark and he can’t see his way, what makes a man keep going?
His choice to be… STRONG.
BE MASCULINE OUTCHEA
WALT FACTUAL
