“Just like the day that I met you, the day I thought forever, said that you love me, but that’ll last for never, it’s cold outside, like when you walked out my life, why you walk out my life?”
“Heartbreak Anniversary” Giveon
Let’s Go 2 Work.
It was all good just a week ago.
You had a sexy girlfriend, an easy job, a fly apartment, a nice car, life was actually kind of…great. And then, all of a sudden, as fate would have it, life started lifin’. The woman who you loved more than anything in the world, the woman in which you would’ve died for, told you that she’s confused and needed space. You don’t understand, your heart feels like it’s in your stomach, you ask her question after question … “What did I do?” … “How can I fix it?” … “Why didn’t you say you were unhappy?” She replies to each inquiry with more and more hostility, it’s as if you and her were not inseparable just a few days ago. What the fuck is going on? You thought she loved you. You feel betrayed. You feel…like dying.
Truth #1- She’s being cold towards you because she’s fallen for someone else. The reason she’s treating you like shit is because she has closed off her feminine energy to you. Why is her energy closed to you? A woman cannot serve two masters, as in, only one man at a time may have access to a woman’s TRUE loving feminine energy. The more you push, the more she will pull away. Once her energy is closed to you, your only option is to fall back.
Truth #2- She doesn’t know how she fell out of love with you and fell in love with him, but this happened simply because of…time. Spending time with women is a tricky thing. In the beginning, spending lots of time with them helps you, but after 3 to 6 months, if you spend too much time with a woman, it will hurt you. This is all due to their nature. A man who is up under his woman 24/7 cannot at the same time also be a man who is hunting, providing, and ensuring her survival.
Truth #3- She’s made the horrible mistake of comparing new feelings to matured feelings and allowing the new feelings to dictate her actions. In other words, he makes her feel how you used to make her feel when you and her first got together. She fails to realize that one day those butterflies she has for him will fade just like they did with you.
People will tell you that you’ll be alright, but I am here to tell you…you will not. For a while, you will be a mess. You will have to pretend to be okay on the outside while feeling as if you're falling apart on the inside. It takes half of the time you were in a relationship to heal. If you were in a relationship for 10 years, it will take you at least 5 years to detox from the other person’s energy. If you were with someone for 4 years, it will take 2 years to purge, and so on.
A heartbreak alters your timeline. It makes a split in the universe and sends you on different path. While traveling this new course, you will come across a fork in the road which forces you to either become worse or better.
To become worse, succumb to how you feel, keep thinking negatively, keep feeling sorry for yourself, play the victim, blame women for your lot in life, disregard your value, and allow your ex-girlfriend to come back and let her hurt you over and over again.
To become better…instead of letting the pain use you, you must use the pain.
How do you use the pain?
Let it Fuel Your Purpose.
Why did your woman walk out of your life? Why has this pain happened to you?
Because You Have No Purpose.
What is your Purpose?
To Add Value to Mankind.
How do you find your purpose?
Follow Your Enthusiasm.
For now, whatever it is that excites you, that is your purpose. If looking like a sex god excites you, then working out is your current purpose. From working out you might find a passion for nutrition which could then lead to you selling meal preps. To sell those meals, maybe you create a website. While developing the website perhaps you learned that you really like web design, which then may take you back to school for a computer engineering degree, and then, with some time and effort, you achieve a meaningful career paying 6-figures at Google.
NEVER EVER forget this…PURPOSE must come before everything and everyone…especially… women.
Once you get on your purpose, I GUARANTEE your girl will come back…begging! But absolutely do not do it for her. Do it for pride, do it for your ancestors, do it for the Most High, do it for YOU.
For my nephew.
WALT FACTUAL
