I have failed you.
I’ve focused so much on enlightening you about the opposite sex that I have neglected to speak on the many devious ways of men. In all truth, you must treat men exactly how you treat women…that’s right. What do I mean? Just like you can only display strength in front of women, so is the same with men. Just as you must protect your money, energy, attention, and time with women, so must you do with men. Females love men who are fun, mysterious, bold, dangerous, and guess what… so do men. Everything…almost everything, I have told you concerning women must also be applied to your dealings with men because men can do just as much damage to your progress in life.
With that said, here are 6 Things to Never Tell a Man…
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#1. Women problems
-There’s no point to vent about a current breakup, or how she did you wrong, or how you swear this time you’re “done”. Why? Unless the man you’re venting to knows your side of the story, her side of the story, and has been through the exact same thing, all of his advice will be biased towards you. Additionally, if and when you go back to your woman, three things will happen. Your homeboy will consider you a fool, he will now unconsciously see you as weak, and he will also think you are full of shit. All of this can be avoided if you just keep your women problems to yourself.
#2. Any problems
-I know he looks and acts like he gives a shit…but he doesn’t. BE a man who is self-reliant, self-assured, and Self-Made.
#3. What you plan to do
-Here’s a secret. All men are playing a game of thrones. They can appear friendly, but do not be fooled by this, for they secretly want all the women, power, and money for themselves. As long as a man is doing better than you, he’ll root for you, why, because you are no threat to him. But if he is your equal or if he’s below you, he will always see you as a rival. When you tell him what you plan to do, he is quietly hoping that you don’t succeed so that you do not surpass him in life. This energy emits into the spiritual world and hinders your progress. Keep all of your plans to yourself and speak only when your goal is reached.
#4. Diminishing Returns
-This one is something to never do... never spend too much time with men in one day. Diminishing returns means that when you invest more and more of a resource it eventually ends up producing benefits at a lower rate. The more TIME you spend with men, the more diminishing returns you will get. Time spent with men must be divided into 3 categories: play, work, and elevation of vibration. Play as in things considered to be fun amongst each other, work as in a collective effort towards a goal, and elevation of vibration as in exchanging ideas with one another through conversation. The ideal amount of time spent per group is 2 hours and 3 hours is the max limit. Exceed this time frame and witness the energy slowly transition from positively masculine to negatively feminine.
#5. Vulnerabilities (This includes all fears, doubts, insecurities, anxieties, and any types of pain)
-Remember…it’s a game of thrones. If you have never seen the HBO series “Game of Thrones”, I want you to take what I’m saying literally. The relationship between men is a game in which each contestant will do whatever they must in order to obtain the throne. The throne is significant because it symbolizes a man’s access to sex. The word vulnerable comes from the Latin word vulnus which means to wound. When you tell men your vulnerabilities, you open yourself up to be wounded by them, thus ultimately self-sabotaging yourself out of the game. Keep your vulnerabilities between you and God and work on turning them into strengths.
#6. The Matrix
-There are three Matrixes in life. The first Matrix is when you awaken to your tribe and find power in where you come from. The second Matrix is when you discover your masculinity and align yourself with your primal nature. If you are reading my articles and listening to my podcast, then that means you have unearthed the masculine Matrix. The third is a spiritual Matrix where you find the connection between God and your true self. None of these matrixes can be told, a man must seek and uncover these truths on his own. As the saying goes, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” Attempting to tell a man about these Matrixes before he is ready is exactly like planting a seed on unfertile soil…futile.
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