Let me give you a rundown of my week.
Monday- 40-year-old female BEGS me for $23 for an Uber because she had no money to get home. I told her ass, with great delight, NO. She went on to tell me how wrong I was and how she just needed to get an Uber home. If you don’t have $23, I suggest you don’t leave home in the first place.
Tuesday- I invited female #2 to a New Years Eve event.
Wednesday- I regret inviting female #2 to the New Years Eve event. Why you ask? Because after conversing with her for an hour I discovered she is a miserable person who finds immense joy in misunderstanding me and being disagreeable. I’m not a fortune teller, but I can pretty much predict how my New Years Eve will go if I take her out. By the time you read this, I’ve canceled her invite.
Thursday- Female #3 has been BEGGING me to facetime her. I have not had time to do so, so, I decided to overcompensate and hit her with a little late-night X-rated show. I assumed by giving her what she wanted…and then some, that she wouldn’t ask anything else of me for a while.
Friday- Female #3 now wants me to send her a picture of myself. Now to you that might not seem like a big deal, but me personally, I don’t like when women constantly ask for stuff, especially when they haven’t reciprocated. So, after a while both big and small requests get answered with a… NO. Because I denied her want, she proceeded to tell me that I’m toxic, she hates me, and wanted nothing else to do with me.
Saturday- Female #4 has been BEGGING me to spend time with her. I decided to finally go over to her place. As soon as I got there… her ex-husband began blowing up her phone. He asked her if somebody was there, she told him… yes. My instincts quickly told me her ex was on the way. We then had to relocate and now I had to spend unbudgeted money on an unplanned hotel.
Sunday- This brings me to the point of this article…Let get to work.
As you may or may not know, PEMDAS is an acroynm we use on the podcast. If you would like to know what it stands for please refer to our latest episode “The 5 Keys to a Self-Made Man(Ep.67). But to save time, I’m just going to talk about the “S” which stands for subtraction.
I don’t care how good intentioned, helpful, and useful the woman is, ALL women subtract from you. If it’s not your money, they will still subtract your time, your attention, and your energy. There comes a time when a man must cut women out of his life for a while. I understand telling you this is similar to a rich man telling a broke man, “Money doesn’t buy happiness.” When you don’t have women, that is all you want. I’m living proof of this though, once you build your garden, the butterflies do come. The bad thing about butterflies is they often make you neglect what got them there in the first place.
I won’t lie, I am extremely annoyed with the opposite sex right now. A wise man once said that when the world is agitating you…rest. Women subtract, that’s what they do, so you can’t be mad at them for who they are. It is up to us as the leaders to know when we are in the proper spiritual, physical, and mental space to abundantly give and it’s also up to us to know when we are not. When we find ourselves drained and/or irritated with women, it’s time to take a break. Even if you are in a serious relationship, you still need to take a break every now and then. Now getting your girl to give you that break is a whole other article.
Allow me to introduce the term “Monk-Mode”, which is an old concept that you may or may not have heard about. Monk-Mode is a period of enhanced isolated focus, discipline, and productivity. It can be anywhere from 1 month to 2 years, the time required for Monk-Mode is entirely up to you. During this time a man must abstain from everything that distracts and subtracts from him, i.e., women.
I will be entering monk-mode at the top of the new year for 3 months. It won’t be easy, but anything important is difficult. When an airplane is experiencing extreme turbulence the plane cabin will automatically release oxygen masks. As you know, the flight attendants always tell you to put your mask on first before trying to help anyone else. Monk-Mode is our oxygen mask.
Onward and upward gentlemen.
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